Is it Love that "Hurts" ??

There is a very famous dialog in the Bollywood flick "Dabaang"  ... (Sonakshi Sinha says) "Sahab Thappad se darr nahin lagta, Pyaar se lagta hai" which according to me translates as 'Am not afraid of being hurt .. Its just Love that scares me' ... 


Can love really scare someone?? .... i mean I don't know ki pyaar or love kaisa hota hai? .... I've no Idea how it makes someone feel.... but yes i love my family...and the only way of expression of this love is "CARE" .... so if care is love.... I've loved a lot many people and am loved by most of them too..  and I am not scared of it!! 


I've learnt a very important Lesson from my 'small life' till now... its like nothing hurts more than expectations.... you expect something to happen with your all heart and if its not the way you want it will "HURT" , more that even one can imagine... perhaps same happen in love... you expectations are most from your beloved and that why pain, agony or suffrage is most ...... 

wo kis raastey humari zindagi mein aaye 

ki ahaat bhi na hui kadmon ki

aur dheere dheere zindagi ban gaaye 

chaahat meri aur mohobaat bhi

Na waqt ka hosh tha,

na zamaane ki khabar,

kuch rang naya sa tha,

iss dil ka bhi tha ek dilbar...

bin maange jo khushi mili thi, 

shayad lag gayi usse meri hi nazar..

chhod diya raahon mein,

wo gaye kuch is kadar-

ki ab akeli si hai yeh zindagi,

saanson ki bhi nahin khabar,

jee nahin sakte unke bina - chalo mar ke bhi dekhenge,

dafnane ke baad likh dena yaaro- ek ashiq ki hai yeh kabr.